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Right, so on with today’s post.
I was always taught to rebuke or reject a negative word spoken over my life immediately, counteracting it with the truth of God’s word or completely dismissing what was said – so that it doesn’t take root in me, causing unnecessary doubt or pessimistic thoughts in my mind.
For as long as I can remember, I have always behaved this way, protecting my mind from poisonous people, who only want to hurt you with their words. This is something that has become apart of me and I can honestly say that it really works!
I do find it very boring actually when people choose to act a fool in that way but unfortunately, this is they way some human beings are. Have you ever experienced what i’m taking about?
A bit about me…
Generally speaking, by nature, I’m a reactive and protective person and feel that if a situation is deliberately going pear – shaped or someone is throwing shade on purpose, it’s appropriate for the situation or individual to be approached and addressed.
However,
As I have become older, I have understood and accepted something else. Something that has changed my way of thinking forever.
There are just some individuals who have purposed in their hearts to be trouble makers and come after your peace of mind. These people may be found among your friends, family, teachers or work colleagues etc and it can be very irritating as they attempt to provoke you when they get the chance.
But listen,
Every comment does not deserve a response
If you are quite reactive by nature, allow the above statement to filter through. Sometimes the best response is no response at all. Why? Because it speaks louder.
I realised that although being reactive is not necessarily a bad thing, it is not the best way to respond all the time.
Life experiences has taught me the following: how you react in any situation determines your strength and capacity. It builds your character and tenacity, your ability to persevere and stand in unfavourable situations. #facts
Being able to walk away, say nothing or simply smile is not a sign of weakness but immense strength. Do not entertain shallow minded people, if they refuse to change the way they think, they will never become the great people God created them to be.
For it is written, (Proverbs 23:7)
‘For as he thinks in his heart, so is he’….
As we are approaching a new year, let’s learn how to be proactive in our thoughts, actions and speech. Being able to control and have authority over a situation as oppose to purely reacting to it.
There is one thing the late Maya Angelou said,
‘If you don’t like something change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.’
Your attitude is everything. Every comment doesn’t deserve a response.
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